I have a friend that often reminds me that, "There is no such thing as the status quo; change is inevitable. We are either improving or going backwards." He is right, and C.S. Lewis applies this principle to our relationship with God. There are, however, two unfortunate things.
First, most of us tend to like the status quo. We don't like change. We like where we are at and are fearful of messing up a good thing. We fail to truly understand that, in the case of the Christian, all change is good, even change that brings about pain. Instead of being wary of change, Christians need to be people who enthusiastically embrace change. Roosevelt's oft quoted saying, "We have nothing to fear but fear itself" is truer for the Christian than for anybody else because we have the assurance that all things, even painful things, will benefit us.
The second unfortunate thing is that being fallen, we tend to sabotage our path to wholeness. As Paul said in Romans, "For I know that nothing good dwells in me, that is, in my flesh; for the willing is present in me, but the doing of the good is not. For the good that I want, I do not do, but I practice the very evil that I do not want." (Romans 7:18-19). The key is to acknowledge our tendency, to embrace the forgiveness that is made available to us, and to repent, that is, turn back around and head toward wholeness. There is never a time when you have gone too far down the road of destruction. We can always turn back toward God.
True wholeness is found only in Him. When we are not moving toward Him, we are ultimately on the path of destruction. Make a decision today to move toward wholeness, that is, to move toward Him.